Family Challenges

Postpone the happy hour

Some people figure their kids are going to drink alcohol eventually, so why make a big deal out of it? But there's new evidence that says the longer you postpone early drinking, the less likely the child will suffer alcoholism. The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) reports that more than 40 percent of respondents to a major national survey who began drinking before age 15 developed alcoholism. For those who started at age 17, the percentage dropped to 25 percent, and only 10 percent of those who started drinking at the legal age of 21 developed addiction to alcohol.

Alcoholism reduces your child's chances of a successful marriage, productive work life, happy children, and active spiritual life. Who would wish that for their child?

Take an active role in helping your child refrain from underage drinking. Be clear on your expectations, explain these warnings, and monitor where your child goes and who he or she is with. Join with other parents, especially around celebratory times like graduations, end of the school year, sports championships, etc., to see that the kids celebrate sanely.

An adolescent's brain and neuro-system are still at a critical stage of development. Exposing them to the physical effects of too much alcohol can alter them and increase the likelihood of your child becoming addicted. It won't be a matter of willpower, strength of character, or morality. It will become a physical condition that will erode your child's willpower, character, and morals.

And if, despite your preventative efforts, your child develops a problem with alcohol or drugs, remember that recovery is possible and happens best when supported by the family. Call Alcoholics Anonymous at 212-870-3400.

 

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