Feasts, Seasons, Sacraments

It’s in the cards

Here’s an idea my family plans to try. It’s adapted from an idea I read in Food for the Family Spirit (Sheed & Ward). Instead of the usual grace before dinner during December, open up any Christmas cards you received that day and offer a prayer ("God bless, Aunt Christine") for the person or family that sent it. If you kids aren’t familiar with who sent the card, it’s a perfect opportunity to tell a story about the person and how they fit into your life. This practice can help your children appreciate the larger family they belong to, give you more opportunities to share your own life with your children, and nurture relationships that can mean a lot to your children in future years.

Besides, it’s a chance to really look at those cards that people sent, to appreciate their beauty and the messages they extend.

If you’re lucky, you’ll also receive at least a couple of "Christmas Letters" that everyone groans about, but I enjoy. I especially love to receive the annual letter from my old college roommate Dave. He lives a thousand miles away, has two kids my own kids’ ages, and takes his personal and spiritual growth seriously. His letters are always thoughtful, powerful, open, and challenging. After reading his letters I feel as though I’ve had a chance to sit and catch up with him. I recommit to my own spiritual growth.

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